Wednesday, May 27, 2020

Social Media vs. Spoken Words

Social Media vs. Spoken Words
What I wrote may not be what you heard!
By: Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, May 27, 2020

Have you considered the difference and lingering effects between words written on Social Media platforms or in a book or document such as this one, as compared to words that are spoken?  There is a huge difference; like the difference between 2D movies and 3D movies.  3D movies have more depth and are usually more enjoyable.  Social Media by comparison are simply words that appear on a screen absent any inflections, emphasis, or pauses; they are just words (2D).  When engaged in conversations, people are able to put emphasis on certain words by speaking louder or softer, or even inserting a pause….for effect (3D).  Such emphasis can change the meaning of what was said.  Writers, other than on Social Media, can do some of the same things by inserting…to reflect a pause, or EMBOLDEN and or UNDERLINE letters to emphasize a word or words as compared to the rest of the sentence; almost 3D but not quite.

As an example, let’s consider this one short sentence.  It is an ugly sentence but it was the one that was used to teach the principle to me so many decades ago.

The actual intended meaning of the sentence greatly depends upon which word or words you place your emphasis.  To illustrate this, I will EMBOLDEN just a word(s) to change the actual meaning of the sentence.

  • I…did not say I beat my wife today.  I didn’t say it, someone else must have said it.
  • I did not…say I beat my wife today.  Just didn’t say it!
  • I did not say…I beat my wife today.  I may have thought about it but I didn’t actually say it.
  • I did not say I…beat my wife today.  This is my favorite; I did not say I beat my wife but that doesn’t mean someone else didn’t beat her.
  • I did not say I beat…my wife today.  This is all about definitions.  What do you mean when you say “beat?”  I may have roughed her up a bit but I certainly didn’t beat her!
  • I did not say I beat my…wife today.  Definitely NOT my wife but you ought to see the neighbor’s wife.
  • I did not say I beat my wife…today.  It wasn’t my wife that I beat but you ought to see my kids.
  • I did not say I beat my wife today.  It wasn’t today, but yesterday is another story. 
Think about some of the posts on Social Media you may have read or even posted.  Is it possible that the reader understands a meaning you did not intend?

  • Read what you post on line before you actually post it.  I would even suggest reading it twice for both spelling and grammar. 
  • If you are posting from your smart phone, the chances of spell check inserting the wrong word seem to be enhanced.  You can also make mistakes simply by hitting the wrong letters on your very small keyboard and the misspellings remain or spell check takes over and inserts a word it thinks is the one you wanted to include. 
  • BEFORE you respond to a post make certain you understand what the sender intended.  If you don’t, take the time to ask what was meant by the post. 
  • You read a post about today being “hump day” but you know it is Thursday, not Wednesday.  This is an obvious example but some posts are not so obvious as to when they were initially posted.  Before you draft a response that you may be pointing out something that happened AFTER the initial post, check the time the initial post was made.  Doesn’t happen all that often but it is worth checking. 
  • PC Police are abundant on Social Media and they will dissect your posts to insure you haven’t offended someone.  Keep in mind that your mother was right!  Sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you.  What your mother and my mother left off was, words will never hurt you unless you allow them to.  Read your post BEFORE you post it to make certain that you are not unintentionally offending someone.  Even so, there are times when you just have to say what needs to be said, I understand that. 
  • Don’t use language in your posts that you wouldn’t use in front of your children or someone else’s children.  For a great many people, they have begun using the common “four-letter” words with regularity.  In the minds of many, such posts oftentimes lowers the IQ and/or opinion of the person making the post.  When that occurs, the sender loses a great deal of credibility and may even be blocked by the recipient. Simple question, would you want your own children to read what you have posted? 
  • If you are member of a group(s), FOLLOW THE RULES of the group(s).  One such rule for most groups is that there are to be NO political posts.  Don’t break the rules. 
  • If you post a statement that is based upon facts, a news release, or a specific Internet site or report, reference your material.  Let the reader know from where the apparent facts of your post came from and that enables the reader to read what you read to verify what you have posted.  If that is your intention, that is a good thing. 
  • If you wouldn’t say something to a person’s face, you may want to think twice about posting something because you have the perceived safety of doing so on your computer/smart phone screen. 
  • Say what you mean, mean what you say!  Always a good rule to follow. 
  • Stop with the never ending, “if you don’t forward this something horrible will happen….” messages!  If someone believes it should be forwarded, they will forward it.  Please stop! 
  • Avoid becoming a Social Media PC “nut job!”   Funny, you the reader may think that is what I just did by writing this Nugget but that was never my intention.

Friday, May 22, 2020

A Power Course To Instantly Analyze Anyone
A book review by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, 22 May 2020

This final paragraph explains the benefits of this book:

“As novelist Dick Wittenborn said, we are the sum of all the people we have ever encountered, met, and interacted with. Community changes us, and we change the community. With a keen and kind understanding, we can direct these changes toward the good and the positive.”

Analyze People is the fourth of four books written by Lance P. Richards.  Collectively they provide the reader with an extremely valuable in sight to people including yourself.  This last of the four books truly causes you to first analyze yourself before you attempt to analyze (define) others.  Why is this important?  I look at everything I read through the prism of a 33-year career in real estate sales with the emphasis on the word sales.  My experience has taught me that if you can properly analyze your probable buyers and sellers, you can adjust your presentation on the fly to literally match their beliefs and attitudes.  Why is that important?  Because it is easier to do business with people you like and it is easier to like people who are like you.

Like the other books, this one causes you to pause and think about how what was written applies to you and that is always a very good thing to do.  This book is a gem full of valuable information that you can use in developing personal relationships, business relationships and especially for people in sales who want to make more sales.  Based upon my real estate experience, this book should be required reading BEFORE a real estate sales agent meets with their first customer; it will make a difference!

Who should read this book?  Since it would benefit everyone, everyone should read it.  I think teenagers would especially benefit reading the book by showing them how to avoid typical struggles with life and relationships BEFORE they become problems. It also makes it easy to identify what you may need to work on in regards to your own personality and character.
Would I read it again?  Probably not, the lessons of the book were well learned but I would revisit the questions he suggests we all ask and answer and then grade the results.
Would I give it as a gift?  ABSOLUTELY!

Special Note:  You can purchase the books individually or you can purchase them as a group of four as I did.  Here is the link to purchasing them as a group of four may be the best $5.99 you will ever INVEST in yourself.

Wednesday, May 20, 2020

A Must Read for Business and Relationships

Take Back Your Life and Overcome Limitations
A book review by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, 16 May 2020

One of the opening paragraphs in the Introduction describes exactly what this book wants you to be able to accomplish for yourself.

“You will learn how to develop a winning mindset, enhance Emotional Intelligence, become self-motivated, develop confidence in yourself, take better care of your body, be more productive, build smart habits, and so much more!”

The book does in fact achieve that and much more.  I read a lot of book through the prism of a 33-year real estate sales career.  Everyone involved in sales ought to read this book, the third in a series of four.  Thus far, this statement would apply to all three of the books and I am predicting the last book in the series, Analyzing People will be equally as beneficial.

While every section would be instructional, the section on developing a “growth mindset” ought to be paramount in anyone’s personal development.  If you are not growing you are falling behind, it is that simple.  Richards explains the importance of developing a pro-growth mindset and then sets about explaining how you achieve one.  One such example is his explanation of aiming for learning not winning.  Richards also provides self-tests to ascertain your current understanding of your own attitude and it is very revealing.  As in his previous books, I had to fight the urge to think that so-and-so ought to be reading this book.  While that may be true, it is still a vital instructional manual for me as well as anyone who reads it.

Richards points out a quote from Aristotle, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”  If you understand this, you will understand the value of this book.  It is all about creating habits that will help you rather than hurt you and your business and personal relationships.
Who should read this book?  Since it would benefit everyone, everyone should read it.  I think teenagers would especially benefit reading the book by showing them how to get started on the right paths leading them to a successful career and life.
Would I read it again?  Probably not, the lessons of the book were well learned but I would revisit the questions he suggests we all ask and answer and then grade the results.
Would I give it as a gift?  ABSOLUTELY!

Sunday, May 17, 2020

Another Gem to learn from!

Winning the Battle Over the Noise of Life
A book review by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, 16 May 2020

The opening paragraph in this second of four books by Lance P. Richards, perfectly describes this book:

“Do you constantly find yourself stressed out, tired, or overwhelmed?  Do you want to step away from the noise of life?  Are you looking for simple yet effective strategies to attain rest and relaxation?”

Richards explains in this book why rest and relaxation are so important you and your health.  More importantly he provides you with excellent ways to achieve the rest and relaxation your mind and body needs.  He also explains how and why to identify unhealthy habits and reflects on why we should focus on what is important in our lives.  One very important discussion involves rekindling the joy and benefits of reading; something currently lacking in our American society where people use the excuse that they are too busy to read.

We have all heard about the benefits of meditation.  Richards does not delve deep into the benefits but does provide the reader with easy to understand forms of meditation that you may heretofore had not thought of as meditation techniques. 

I found this book extremely helpful in understanding the value of silence as Richards defines it which does not necessarily mean the lack of noise.  He explains how just spending time in nature is in itself a form of meditation and finding a lack of noise in nature is difficult.  Yet spending time in nature can help you with not only relaxation but enables you to breath in clean fresh air at the same time.

This second of four books is an excellent read!  I found that like the first book, reading it causes you to stop reading and to just sit and think about what was written and how it applies to your life.  That is always a very good thing to do!

Who should read this book?  Since it would benefit everyone, everyone should read it.  I think teenagers would especially benefit reading the book by showing them how to avoid typical struggles with life and relationships BEFORE they become problems.
Would I read it again?  Probably not, the lessons of the book were well learned but I would revisit the questions he suggest we all ask and answer and then grade the results.
Would I give it as a gift?  ABSOLUTELY!

Friday, May 15, 2020

Control Your Emotions and Eliminate Fear
A book review by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, 20 May 2020

Have year ever had thoughts while reading a book, “Hey, so-and-so needs to read this book!”  You were absolutely certain that “so-and-so” was lacking in the knowledge contained in the book you were reading and they could not help but learn from it.  That is what happened to me when I first began reading this book by Lance P. Richards.  So-and-so could definitely use this information; no doubt about it! 

Then I realized that “so-and-so” was actually me!  What a shocker!  I needed the help provided by Richards probably more so than anyone on the planet and I am pretty sure that readers will feel the same way.  Not that they will think I need the information unless of course they might know me, but rather that they could use the information. 

You may have heard all or part of what Richards writes about before but dare I say it, most will not have heard any of this information before.  It certainly was not taught as I grew up.  I don’t know what is being taught in 2020.  Now you can read it all in one excellent book.  The book is written in a format that causes the reader to often pause and do a self-assessment by simply asking the question, “Is he talking about me?”  In my case he oftentimes was talking not only to me but also about me.

The “fear” Richards refers to in the subtitle is not just physical fear it is about fear that everyone of us from time to time experiences.  Fear of public speaking, fear of heights, fear of human touch, you name it.  Richards lays out a plan to first address the fears we face and then how to combat them.  Not sure it is possible for anyone to read this book, familiar with the subject or not, and NOT come away with a better understanding of self and what you can do to improve your self.

Now for the best part.  The book is available on Amazon as a four-book set all in one.  The titles of the remaining two books are, The Power of Silence, Winning the Battle Over the Noise of Life; Mindset Mastery, Take Back Your Life and Overcome Limitations; and Analyze People, A Power Course to Instantly Analyze Anyone.  With titles like these, how could you possibly go wrong in reading them?  I will write reports on each as I read them.  Watch this Blog at for later reviews.

Who should read this book?  Since it would benefit everyone, everyone should read it but especially people dealing with “issues.”
Would I read it again?  Probably not, the lessons of the book were well learned.
Would I give it as a gift?  ABSOLUTELY!

Thursday, May 7, 2020

Thinking For Yourself In An Age of Unreason
A book review by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, 7 May 2020

Consider just this one paragraph taken from this book:

“…losing a debate isn’t a sign of stupidity or weakness, but a sign of growth if you’re willing to embrace it with humility.”

It was when I read that one sentence I realized that this book was indeed very special, at least to me .It is a book that as you read it, you find yourself putting the book down, taking a sip of your coffee, sitting back in your chair and not just think about what you have  read, you truly think about what you have just read.  Most books you just read, a sentence, a paragraph or a page, one at a time.  This book I found impossible to do that with because it did make me want to think not only about what Rubin had written but more importantly how I felt about what he had written and I began to question my own beliefs about a lot of very topical subjects

Look at the sub-title of the book, “Thinking For Yourself In An Age of Unreason.”  In my opinion Rubin has created a book that accomplishes that, it makes you think, maybe for the first time regarding some very important subjects.

As background, Rubin points out that he was born Jewish in a stable family life in the New York City area.  Went to college and grew up like so many people from that part of the country having strong left, Liberal beliefs. Rubin also describes how he is gay and married.  He draws a picture of someone people on the political right would describe as being Liberal thinking.  But his beliefs have significantly changed in a relatively short-period of time.  He explains how the change took place in this book and why the changes occurred.  He talks about such subjects as abortion, minimum wage, racism, language, sexism, transgenderism, education, free speech, gun control, etc.

The value of this book can be summarized in the last two paragraphs of Chapter 9:

“You’ve never had such incredible power and reach.  We have no idea how that awesome power has changed the world already and will continue to do so.  So how are you going to use that power?  What do you want to put out into the universe?”

“Begin your adventure now and you will be amazed at how you can change your world.”

Who should read this book?  Since it would benefit everyone, everyone should read it but especially those who still believe in a perceived honesty of the news media.
Would I read it again?  Probably not, the lessons of the book were well learned.
Would I give it as a gift?  ABSOLUTELY!

Friday, May 1, 2020

Not a book just for Real Estate, for all businesses

A book review written by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, April 6, 2020
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First the value of trust.  While on a live Facebook video, Jeffrey Gitomer, someone I trust, suggested that if you ever get the chance to hear Jay Baer or read his books, just do it.  I looked up Jay Baer on Amazon and he has several books available.  I purchased this one and will purchase others.

Sadly, the title of this book, more specifically the reference to Real Estate, will probably cause a lot of people NOT in the real estate business or interested in real estate, NOT to buy and read it and that would be their loss.  This book applies to anyone in business!

The book is very unique in this regard.  It is short.  Why is it so short?  Because it is a prelude of sorts to his primary book of a similar title Youtility, Why Smart Marketing is about Help not Hype. This book for Real Estate is not just a primer for his Youtility book, it provides the reader with actual examples of the principles he teaches in regards to creating a demand for your service or product.  It is definitely a book that feeds ideas into the mind, ideas that you can put to good and profitable use in your business, any business, not just real estate.

I love this book!  It really causes you to stop and assess your own business and how it could be different with a little thought and maybe a change in perspective.

Who should read this book?  Anyone in business but especially anyone in real estate sales.
Would I read it again?  Probably not but there are so many links to great sites, I would definitely use it as a resource to search out those links.
Would I give it as a gift?  Absolutely!

Monday, April 27, 2020

Hey! High School Grads

Book Review by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, April 27, 2020
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While listening to Jeffrey Gitomer on his every day morning Facebook live video at 9:59 Eastern Time, he said something that triggered my imagination in a truly great way; hope you agree.

This message is for just about any high school student and all parents and should give them serious, food for thought.  Given the high cost of secondary education whether it is a university, a college or a trade school, you would do yourself and your child a HUGE favor by considering the following.  First a little personal history to put an exclamation point on the point!

In 1963 I went from graduating high school directly to college on my parent’s tab.  It was a state school so the tuition in 1963 was considerably less than a non-state school and unbelievably less than it is today.  I was 18 years old.  No one in my high school (guidance counselors) ever asked me what I wanted to do with the rest of my life.  I just went to college because that is (1) what most where striving for and (2) parents thought it was the ONLY way to succeed in life.  Both criteria, by the way, were wrong.

In 1963 I enrolled and signed up for a major in Marketing and Advertising.  Why I chose those two is anyone’s guess, just “seemed like the thing for me to do at the time.”  For the record, I hated college.  I stayed in school for 2 years and felt like a round peg trying to be put into a square hole; I just didn’t fit in.  By accident I found a home and a career in the U. S. Coast Guard and that did not require a college education!  Important point! 

Sadly, I don’t know how much my failed attempt at a college education cost or how much it cost my parents.  By disliking it so much, I did not apply myself and my grades unfortunately was evidence to that fact; they were horrible.  It’s the “cost” that this Nugget hopefully addresses and as per Jeffrey Gitomer’s comment on his broadcast this morning, there is a solution that makes so much sense and I hope to herein prove it.

At 18, who really knows what their life will look like 30 years later or at 18, who really knows what they want to do with the rest of their life?  I certainly didn’t and I’m guess that I am/was not alone in that thinking.  I have to laugh at some of the educational majors kids are taking in college and have repeatedly asked, “What on Earth are you going to do with a degree in underwater basket weaving (insert whatever field you wish)?  I didn’t even know there was such a thing to major in.”  Kids are getting degrees in fields that the ONLY thing they will be able to do with their degrees is to find a teaching job that teaches “underwater basket weaving.”  You know this is true.

Here's the idea.  Graduate from high school!  Of course, you should try to get a fully paid scholarship if you can, but most cannot.  Therefore, it is a choice of using your parent’s money, get a part time job or both, in order to pay for a college education in a field that may not even exist by the time you graduate.  As an alternative, and I love the concept of this, as an 18-year-old, get a job, any job.  Do your best at it for two years – set a goal – two years.  Live at home with your parents and if you explain the why to them, they will welcome the why with open arms.  Why would you want to do this?   Let me count the ways:

·       You can save a lot of living expenses in two years
·       You can use the time to mature and figure out what you really want to do for the rest of your life
·       You can save a lot of money over the course of two years to pay for all or part of your own college education or trade school
·       And, you can also use the 24 months to begin educating yourself through self-education on courses and subjects that will help you acquire and hold onto a job now and later in life.  There are numerous avenues for free and low-cost courses you can take including online courses.

Run the numbers.  Let’s say you get a job selling widgets for $10.00 per hour and you work for just 6 hours a day 5 days a week.  Before tax dollars would equate to $15,600 a year or $31,200 for the two-year period.  At that income level it is doubtful that you would pay many if any taxes on that amount but you might.  $30,000 would go a long way to paying for one or even two years of college depending upon your college of choice and that leads me to my next point. 

Unless there are only a handful of universities that teach the actual courses that would lead to your desired profession, you can attend almost any university/college and get a degree if that is your goal.  So why pick out the one university/college that will cost you the most money to attend? Makes no sense! 

Let’s continue with the math.  If you were able to work 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, that equates to $20,800 a year, $41,600 for two years.  And…if you are fortunate to get a job that pays $15.00 per hour and work 8 hours, 5 days a week, that equates to $31,200 a year or $62,400 over 2 years.  If you decide NOT to go to college because you were able to find a good and lasting job, that money would go a very long way to investing in your first home.

Gary Keller, co-founder of Keller Williams Realty International has the best advice of all – LEAD WITH REVENUES NOT WITH EXPENSES!  This is one way you can do that – get a job – work hard for two years or even three years, live at home, save your money and then pay cash for as much of your education as possible. 

Another life lesson that I learned the hard way was this, you pay more attention to the things YOU pay for and less attention to the things that someone else (parents) pays for.  This applies to a college education, a car or a home or whatever you want to enter into the equation.  It’s a fact of life!

Another life lesson I learned from my good friend, Professional Golfer, Bill Allen, NEVER GAMBLE WITH SCARED MONEY!  What he means by this is that if you can’t afford to lose the money, don’t gamble with it and certainly don’t throw it away.  Throwing money away is what a lot of college kids have done for decades with their parent’s money, me included.  Again, I didn’t know what I wanted to do, I took courses that I hated and made no sense to me, as a result, I did not apply myself and my grades reflected that attitude.  My parents should have saved their money!  My initial guess is that you too will save YOUR money if it is YOUR money you are going to spend.  Lesson learned!

Friday, April 24, 2020


How Bad Behavior and Big Government
Caused a Trillion-Dollar Crisis
Book Review by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, April 11, 2020
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  1. RECOGNIZE that you have a problem
  2. Identify WHAT the problem is
  3. Break the problem down into small workable parts
  4. Think through solutions
  5. Find the solution(s) that work best
  6. Implement the solutions! 
Dr. Nicole Saphire’s book, Make America Healthy Again is not what you might think it is.  It IS a book that thoroughly explains our health care and health insurance programs and they are NOT the same thing.  Her book has been eye opening for me when she describes what health care in America actually looks like and what has been wrong with it and then how the insurance programs have failed us all to some degree.  If America does not recognize that it has a problem, it will never be fixed and our current expectation of quality health care in America cannot be sustained.  Therein lies the problem – SUSTAINABILITY!
Many Car Insurance Companies have instituted plans that REDUCE the cost of car insurance IF you can prove that you drive safely.  They have created monitors you install in your car and/or on your smart phone to track your driving habits.  If you can prove you drive safely, your insurance premium is reduced.  What does that have to do with health insurance and this book?  It is just one example of what is NOT happening within the health care and health insurance businesses.

Unlike car insurance, if you can prove that you do not smoke, that you do not drink alcohol or that you drink ONLY in moderation and that you regularly exercise, those attributes will NOT reduce your cost of health care or insurance premiums but it should.  Everyone pays the same price regardless of the status of your health even though you may reduce, if not eliminate, a lot of diseases you might otherwise contract by living a healthy lifestyle.  Using the car insurance as an example, people who can prove these things to their physicians and insurance carriers, ought to have their health insurance premiums reduced.  Without such an incentive, why bother to live a healthy lifestyle without the incentive to do so and believing that someone can fix whatever is wrong with you with “a magic pill.”

Dr. Saphire’s book explains health care and health insurance in America (and to some extent around the world) in a language easily understood.  The key word to concern yourself with is “sustainable.”  A program may work today but will it work tomorrow?  Our heath care and health insurance programs are no exception.  Can they both be sustained?  Dr. Saphire clearly points out that unless something is done and done soon, health care as we have come to know it and benefit from, will drastically change because it cannot be sustained. You will be shocked at who Dr. Saphire considers as being responsible for its potential demise and it is NOT who you might think.

As a result of reading this book, I have a much better understanding of both our current health care AND the health insurance industries.  As Americans I would think everyone would want to have a better understanding of both.  What courses have you taken, or what books have you read, that both identifies the problems with these two massively expensive programs, AND, offers some solutions to ponder that you may not have considered?  This book does both!

Who should read this book?  Without a doubt – EVERYONE!  It applies to EVERYONE!
Would I read it again?  Not necessary but may prove useful as a future resource
Would I give it as a gift?  To my children?  ABSOLUTELY!  For others, yes, if I thought they would actually read it.

Friday, April 10, 2020

Hey Samson, Nice Hair Cut

Written by Jim “Gymbeaux” Brown, April 11, 2020
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Most people have heard the story of Samson and how he drew unbelievable strength supposedly from the length of his hair.  Only after he was deceived to cut his hair, was he able to be conquered.  America has just had its haircut with this total shutdown of the economy and the stay at home commitments.  Reference, got the idea of Samson from Jeffrey Gitomer on his daily Facebook video post.

A lot of people are at home and a great many of those people have lost their income.  The Federal Government has taken steps to help but I seriously doubt the monetary help the government is providing comes close to paying their monthly bills.  To everyone, you can sit around and feel sorry for yourself and think, woe is me if you want to and think it is in your best interest to do so.  Not me!  What good would come from such an attitude – nothing.  You can sit around the house and watch the endless parade of “experts” on your television puking about the Coronavirus and you can get depressed.  Been there, done that, but not for long.  What exactly can you do with all this unexpected time on your hands?  Thought you would never ask.

I would begin with searching on Spotify or Pandora or both for music to STUDY BY.  It’s there, I know, I have found it and saved it on a playlist.  This is a crucial step in doing something worthy of your time.  Don’t listen to the radio, it is not that much better than watching television. Radio programming is constantly interrupted with Coronavirus updates and if it is talk radio, that is even more depressing than Corona updates. 

Play the STUDY BY music and select a good book to read.  Do you select fiction or nonfiction?  It really depends on whether you are just killing time or if you want to learn something that could be very beneficial to you in your line of work.  Even more importantly, if you have been fired versus just laid off, there is a good chance that your employment was temporary at best.  This would be a fantastic time to learn a new profession.  Time is one thing in your favor, yes, I said in your favor.  You cannot beat the streets looking for work because you are supposed to be in a stay-at-home status.  Time is one thing you have plenty of.  It typically takes between 3 to 7 hours to read most books.  If you used your time wisely and studied the line of work you were engaged in or study the line of work you would like to be engaged in, in a very short period of time you would be an expert!

Even better than listening to STUDY BY music, why not search for Baroque Music.  Why Baroque music?  Again, so glad you asked.  Studies have been done regarding the AFFECT of music on the brain.  It was discovered that Baroque Music had similar if not the same rhythm patterns of brain waves.  Why is this important to understand?  It is similar to Right Brain vs Left Brain technology.  If you happen to be a Right Brain person, one who likes to play music, paint, create things, you will most likely have a difficult time communicating with a Left Brain person, the mathematicians, engineers, architects, etc.   The reverse of that is also true.  Baroque Music, according to the studies, tends to open your brain to new things and enables people to learn much faster than they otherwise would with no music or music that would be contrary to brain wave rhythms, like rock and roll.  Like the Left Brain/Right Brain issue, you increase your ability to communicate with the material you want to learn vs fighting with your environment while you try to learn and understand.   If you want to learn more about this, here is a link to where it is explained much better than I ever could.

Every business should review their standard operating procedures and physical structures (office environments) of their office/business spaces.  Life as we have known it has changed; our hair was cut!  In fact, our collective heads were shaved!  Are you changing with the times or are you going to resist making changes that your employees and customers will now expect?  As an example, look at your typical corner gas station type businesses.  How much would it cost to install a plexiglass divider between customers and employees?  And while you are at it, why not install a bullet resistant plexiglass divider as we know such businesses have been targets for armed robberies; you kill two birds with one stone!  If you are the owner of a corner gas station, here’s a thought.  Customers are more aware of the dangers of spreading disease by touching things that other people have touched.  Are you old enough to remember when gas stations hired young teenagers for a minimum wage to pump gas for its customers?  Could you increase your business by doing that in an environment where the spread of disease is of a major concern and your competition is not doing it?  It’s just a question but a good one don’t you think?  Would I go to such a gas station even if it meant paying a bit more for the gas?  ABOSOLUTELY especially since I am one of the people referred to as having “underlying conditions.”

General Office spaces.  As an office manager what could you do to help prevent the spread of disease within your office spaces.  First thought for me are the rest rooms – a haven for bacteria.  What can you do now to ensure your employees that the rest rooms they use daily are kept as clean as possible?  How can you convey that information to potential customers and visitors?  What can you do regarding common use equipment like computer keyboards, copy machine terminals, and telephones?  Everything that people touch.  What can you do to insure that as many common touch areas are reduced and/or cleaned to the maximum extent possible?  If they exist, make certain that disinfectant sprays, wipes are readily available.  If you take the issue seriously, consider installing doors that open and shut electronically instead of manually with door knobs and push/pull handles.

I see grocery stores installing protection screens for checkout employees and baggers.  I also see grocery stores of the future installing drive through service for the handicapped or the people with “underlying conditions.”  Imagine giving such people the opportunity to go on line or telephone in their order and then simply drive through and pick it up.  The items can also be paid for online and there would be no need for any interaction other than identifying who you are when you drive through. 

A lot of doctors’ offices have an open reception area where employees are constantly exposed to the public.  I see them eventually being glassed in.  And what about waiting rooms.  Ever sat in a doctor’s waiting room for what seems like forever along with everyone else?  I can see future waiting rooms where there is a lot of space between chairs in keeping with the social distance guidelines.  If I were the doctor and it was my office, I would make absolutely certain that all of the multitude of forms that I require my patients to complete and routinely update, would be online forms.  I would notify the patient that the forms are online when they make their appointments and that they are expected to complete the forms prior to their visit to reduce the time spent in the waiting room.  Of course, if a patient does not have access to a computer there would be no alternative but to give them paper forms to complete.

There will be changes coming.  Here’s a thought about your business.  If you fail to address these issues NOW and instead, “wait to see what happens”, and your competition addresses them NOW, who do you think the customers will choose to do business with?  If you don’t know, I would refrain from operating any heavy machinery like driving a car.

I retired from the Real Estate Business in 2012 after 33 years.  I know the business.  What would I do differently given the Coronavirus Pandemic?  If I were an agent, I would create an information sheet that I would give to every customer I work with.  This is what I would say (you can pick and choose whatever applies or whatever you can change to make it work).  

Dear Customer,

If the recent Coronavirus episode taught us one thing it is that disease can be spread person to person through touch, through the air and/or by just being close to each other.  I have established the following guidelines to make as certain as possible that you and I take the precautions established during the Coronavirus outbreak as serious today and into the future.  Your health and the health of your family is paramount to me as I am certain it is for you.  Therefore, I have established these guidelines and sincerely hope you understand they were created in your best interest as well as mine.

  • No handshaking
  • Stay 6 feel apart as much as possible
  • I will provide hand sanitizers for everyone to use
  • I will provide sanitizing wipes when we tour homes to clean door knobs both as we enter and again as we leave a property
  • I personally will sanitize any pens we may use during the process of buying or selling a home
  • When possible, we will take two cars to tour property, you in your car, me in mine. *
  • Be advised that our office routinely sanitizes all door handles and bathrooms on a regular basis
  • If I as your agent, feel the slightest bit ill, I will ask another agent to work with you as scheduled
  • If you or a member of your family feels the slightest bit ill, please notify me as soon as possible and we will reschedule all meetings, showings and closings.
  • For your convenience our office provides sanitizing materials to be used after each use of equipment provided for both customers and employees; equipment such as phones and keyboards.
  • Agreement:  If I ever conduct my business with you in a manner that you feel is unsafe, I would expect that you would remind me of my agreement with you.  In return, I hope you agree that I do the same with you.

Note (*), I have always taught that this is a good technique to use for agents concerned about their personal safety long before the Coronavirus hit us.  I had an entire class on agent personal safety and how to use their cars to help ensure their safety.  If you are uncomfortable with this, then don’t do it but if you do, explain why you do it.

You get the drift.  Just as if Samson’s hair grew out and he would supposedly regain his strength, America’s hair will grow back and I believe it will be longer and stronger than ever before.  But it may not be the same color as before.  Things will and probably should change.  One such example is the habit of shaking people’s hands.  There is nothing wrong with the way the Japanese bow to each other upon greeting them and maybe we should as well. 

Funny story.  Several years ago, I was playing golf and I noticed that one of the players used the Porta-potty on the 14th hole.  We continued to play and after we finished on the 18th hole everyone started to exchange pleasantries and shake each other’s hands.  Except for me.  On that day, at that time, I started to “fist pump” instead of shaking hands.  My fellow players noticed and asked why?  I then said, and I quote, “There are no wash basins in the Porta-potties.”  They all laughed but from that day, they all started using the “fist pump” instead of the hand shake.  Nuff said!